Friday, January 31, 2020

Audiobook Mini-Review: Dear Girls

Dear Girls: Intimate Tales, Untold Secrets, and Advice for Living Your Best Life
Ali Wong
Published October 15, 2019
Ali Wong's heartfelt and hilarious letters to her daughters (the two she put to work while they were still in utero), covering everything they need to know in life, like the unpleasant details of dating, how to be a working mom in a male-dominated profession, and how she trapped their dad.

In her hit Netflix comedy special Baby Cobra, an eight-month pregnant Ali Wong resonated so heavily that she became a popular Halloween costume. Wong told the world her remarkably unfiltered thoughts on marriage, sex, Asian culture, working women, and why you never see new mom comics on stage but you sure see plenty of new dads.

The sharp insights and humor are even more personal in this completely original collection. She shares the wisdom she's learned from a life in comedy and reveals stories from her life off stage, including the brutal singles life in New York (i.e. the inevitable confrontation with erectile dysfunction), reconnecting with her roots (and drinking snake blood) in Vietnam, tales of being a wild child growing up in San Francisco, and parenting war stories. Though addressed to her daughters, Ali Wong's letters are absurdly funny, surprisingly moving, and enlightening (and disgusting) for all. - from Goodreads
 
Ali Wong is a comedian I know a little bit about (and I've seen her Netflix movie Always Be My Maybe), but I've  never seen her stand-up act.  Nevertheless, I wanted to read her book Dear Girls, a sort of memoir/advice book inspired by her two young daughters.  I thought the audiobook would be a good option; I tend to enjoy listening to comedians' books because often it's their voices and way of speaking that really sells the humor.  This one did not disappoint!

In Dear Girls, Ali Wong writes a series of letters to her daughters, recounting some experiences from her life but also giving them some tips and advice.  She prefaces the book by saying that they shouldn't read it until they're at least 21, and I'd agree with that - in many places, it's raunchy, vulgar, and gross, but also funny!  She's not afraid to "go there" and describe some truly disturbing and disgusting situations.  She's loud and brash and honest - but then there are all these wonderful moments when she buckles down and gets serious and emotional.  I love that you can really hear the change in her voice when she's talking about something near and dear to her heart.  The letter on pregnancy (and the miscarriage she suffered) was very touching, and I also liked the tips she gave on wedding planning.  She encourages her daughters to embrace their Asian culture and heritage (especially the food) but also to explore the world and people around them.  She's a huge travel advocate.  The section on her mother, and the relationship she has with her and how it has changed over the years, was a nice addition and introspective on the relationship she wants to have with her own daughters.  The last chapter is written and narrated by Wong's husband, and although I perhaps didn't enjoy it as much as other chapters, you can tell that he is a truly supportive partner and loving father.  Overall, if you're looking for a quick audiobook that's both funny and touching, I'd highly recommend this one!

4 stars

24 comments:

  1. I was curious about this one, because I think Wong is hilarious. It sounds both funny, but a bit deep too

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  2. I've never hear of Ali Wong so she's all new to me. :) But this sounds like a good blend of funny and emotional.

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  3. I don't know this comedian very well but the book sounds really great!

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  4. I've seen this one and I was a little curious about and after your review, I think I need to see if my library carries it. Great review!

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  5. She sounds like so much fun -- and I like how unfiltered she is and I wonder what her kids will think of this book some day!

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    1. Haha, I think they will be equal parts horrified and inspired!

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  6. I'm convinced! Just downloaded it from Audible...

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  7. Ooh! I have never heard about this book, show, or comedian before and I am really intrigued to give it all a try! I think that you make a good point about listening to audiobooks narrated by comedians. I bet this one was lots of fun to listen to. I will definitely add this to my list!

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    1. She was such a great narrator! Hope you enjoy it, Lori!

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  8. I'm glad to hear you enjoyed this. I really like Ali Wong and have had my eye on her book. :)

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  9. I've seen a couple of good reviews of this one. Memoirs aren't really my thing, but seeing so many positive things about this one has me curious. Happy February!

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    1. Haha, I guess I had more to say than I thought I did!

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  11. Oh I watched her shows on Netflix and quite liked them, but didn't know she had an (audio)book out! Definitely adding to my to-listen list, thanks for the review!

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    1. Thanks so much, Lindsey, I hope you love it!

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  12. This sounds really good! I am also unfamiliar with the author, but am generally interested in audiobook memoirs from comedians :)

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